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Is Your Open-Plan Office Making You Anxious?

Oluremi (Remi) Ayoko, The University of Queensland By Oluremi (Remi) Ayoko, The University of Queensland
Oluremi (Remi) Ayoko, The University of Queensland

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From colleagues chatting about their weekends or having intense phone conversations, to email alerts and loud tapping on keyboards, the evidence that open-plan offices take a toll on our wellbeing continues to mount.

Master the Art of Listening: Understanding Empathy as a Key Skill

Fay Short, Bangor University By Fay Short, Bangor University
Fay Short, Bangor University

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Being a good listener means having empathy. But empathy is one of the most misunderstood listening skills.

The Truth About Speech Rates: Why People Talk Fast or Slow

Michelle Devereaux and Chris C. Palmer, Kennesaw State University By Michelle Devereaux and Chris C. Palmer, Kennesaw State University
Michelle Devereaux and Chris C. Palmer, Kennesaw State University

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Real-life fast talkers are staples in some professions. Auctioneers and sportscasters are known for their rapid delivery, though the slower commentary in golf shows there is a range for different sports.

Are You The Personality Type That Knowingly Shares Fake News?

Duke University By Duke University
Duke University

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New research identifies a specific personality type that is more likely to share misinformation and undeterred from sharing it even after being warned it might be false.

Unleashing Your Language Superpower: The Magic Words That Transform Lives

Robert Jennings, InnerSelf.com By Robert Jennings, InnerSelf.com
Robert Jennings, InnerSelf.com

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Everyone wishes they had a superpower. Well, you’ve had a secret power since childhood; you just don’t know how to use it yet. That’s the power of language.

Unraveling the Truth: The Problem with 'Speaking My Truth'

Jeremy Wyatt and Joseph Ulatowski By Jeremy Wyatt and Joseph Ulatowski
Jeremy Wyatt and Joseph Ulatowski

three people in intense conversation

Understanding the concept of "speaking one's truth" and its implications for truth relativism. Discover the importance of valuing diverse perspectives while upholding the objective nature of truth.

The Power of Words: Transform Disagreements with Conversational Receptiveness

Julia Minson By Julia Minson
Julia Minson

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Learn how to engage in productive conversations by making your counterpart feel heard. Discover four simple techniques to foster understanding, maintain dialogue, and find common ground in contentious discussions.

Reconciling the Sacred Feminine and Sacred Masculine

Rebecca Wildbear By Rebecca Wildbear
Rebecca Wildbear

a man and woman holding hands in a barren field with a barren dried out tree

In the eyes of the dominant culture, women, like nature, are deemed substandard. The feminine aspects of the world and in ourselves have been suppressed.

Learning to Listen: Tame the Compulsion to Talk over Others

Brian Smith By Brian Smith
Brian Smith

caricature of someone speaking through a megaphone

Often, people don’t even notice that they’re talkers. It’s important, therefore, to observe your own behavior and read the body language of others to learn if you’re a talker.

The Truth about Reading Nonverbal Cues

Geoff Beattie By Geoff Beattie
Geoff Beattie

a man and woman sitting facing each other having a conversation

Most of us have heard the one about if you cross your arms over your chest you’re feeling defensive or if you’re fiddling with your hair while talking you feel nervous – but is there really any truth to some of these body language stereotypes?

Does Body Language Tell Us Whether Someone Is Being Honest?

Aldert Vrij By Aldert Vrij
Aldert Vrij

person standing with their hands behind their back and their fingers crossed

Do you ever wonder if you could pass a lie detection test or imagine what it would be like to read people’s body language?

ChatGPT Reminds Us Why Good Questions Matter

Stefaan G. Verhulst By Stefaan G. Verhulst
Stefaan G. Verhulst

a drawing of a young man at a laptop with a robot sitting in front of him

By producing resumes, essays, jokes and even poetry in response to prompts, the software brings into focus not just language models’ arresting power, but the importance of framing our questions correctly.

How Understanding Conflict Styles Can Help You Avoid Fights

Sam Carr By Sam Carr
Sam Carr

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For all the joy they bring, families and close friendships often involve conflict, betrayal, regret and resentment.

4 Relationship Killers and How to Cut Them off at the Pass

Jude Bijou By Jude Bijou
Jude Bijou

a couple arguing and pointing fingers at each other

The demise of marriages and relationships in general, is not over money, children, or health but crummy communication styles. 

What Is Compassionate Listening and Why It Matters

Yang-Yang Cheng By Yang-Yang Cheng
Yang-Yang Cheng

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“Compassionate listening” is critical to interpersonal and political communication, because without it, more talking can exacerbate the existing divides and misunderstandings.

9 Rules to Make You Better at Email and Less of a Jerk-Face

Matthew Dicks By Matthew Dicks
Matthew Dicks

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Email is often a means of informal communication. As such, you can dramatically decrease the amount of time spent on email with short, efficient replies. Dispense with formalities whenever possible and in­crease efficiency.

Want To Avoid Your Heated Arguments?

Paul Hanel et al By Paul Hanel et al
Paul Hanel et al

Want To Avoid Your Heated Arguments?

Listening to people talk about views that clash with your own can be galling. Families all over the world avoid controversial topics. In the UK, for example, mention Brexit and watch everyone in the room tense up.

Are Children’s Blunt Polite Truths Judged More Harshly than Their Lies?

Laure Brimbal By Laure Brimbal
Laure Brimbal

a mother talking to her child

Lying is typically viewed negatively. In fact, being judged a liar is often seen as one of the worst characteristics you can ascribe to someone.

Storytelling Allows Elders to Transfer Values and Meaning to Younger Generations

Mary Ann McColl By Mary Ann McColl
Mary Ann McColl

an older man speaking with a young adult over a cup of tea

Repeated storytelling is a key method for elders to communicate what they believe to be important to their children and loved ones.  

How to Talk to Someone about Conspiracy Theories in Five Simple Steps

Daniel Jolley, Karen Douglas and Mathew Marques By Daniel Jolley, Karen Douglas and Mathew Marques
Daniel Jolley, Karen Douglas and Mathew Marques

two people sitting down having a conversation

People’s first instinct when engaging with conspiracy believers is often to try and debunk their ideas with factual and authoritative information.

How Those Who Want to Divide Us Use Language to Stoke Violence

H. Colleen Sinclair By H. Colleen Sinclair
H. Colleen Sinclair

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Events like the riots in Brazil, the Jan. 6, 2021, insurrection two years before it and the mass shooting at the Colorado LGBTQ nightclub each occurred after certain groups repeatedly directed dangerous rhetoric against others.

How Swearing Influences Your Mind, Body and Relationships

Karyn Stapleton et al By Karyn Stapleton et al
Karyn Stapleton et al

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Swearing was long assumed a sign of aggression, weak language proficiency or even low intelligence. We now have quite a lot of evidence that challenges this view, prompting us to reconsider the nature – and power – of swearing.

Why You Should Speak Up In Conversations With Strangers

Quinn Hirschi By Quinn Hirschi
Quinn Hirschi

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In conversations with strangers, people tend to think they should speak less than half the time to be likable but more than half the time to be interesting, according to new research

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